It is almost that time again. We are in a new place this year and are grateful for the fellowship of our new friends that are like family. Spring is almost here and I think of DJ and his love of nature. The sea shore, beaches, mountains, snow, camping and just being outdoors. I long to see his smile and know it won't be long before I do. I have forgiven the man who was responsible for DJ's untimely passing from here to heaven. In some ways I thank Gregory Rodes, as DJ will not have to see and feel the pain in this world. I Love You, miss you terribly, and send you kisses and hugs. Mom
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Heather E-Mail:
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Thursday November 1, 2007 - 02:50pm
Happy birthday......thinking of you!
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Bea E-Mail:
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Sunday April 8, 2007 - 06:06pm
7 years, God's number of perfection, may you all have a year of Jubilee and a new beginning. God has not forgotten you or your family. His justice will prevail. amour toujour mon petit fils
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Heather
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Saturday March 3, 2007 - 11:09am
I can't believe it has been 7 years since I last saw the man I loved. I will never forget you, DJ. I think about you everyday. Please watch over all of us until we meet again. Love you, love bug!!
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marsha E-Mail:
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Cranbrook,
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Friday February 23, 2007 - 05:41pm
Hello to all the family i knew DJ, Jerry ,Tom and Melody from Langley , many moons ago. and yet we all walked the same paths for so many years i rejected all i knew to be right and opted for what the world had to offer , i buried a best friend whos murderer was never brought to justice , chose to live hell on earth and walked as far away as i could from the lord, then my mom got sick, very sick , i ended up at a door with 1 choice get help or go away from all i love , my kids and my mom&sister, i made the right choice, i learnt how to heal the pain in the past that i had NO control over, we cant be everywhere 4 all people, and letting go of the fact i cant save any life but my own (and to do that i let the lord finally have his way ) was the only way to move into a new life free of the past. losing my mom with no regret of what i had done was the truest grace god ever did for me. so let ur healing start abd let ur love for DJ go on 4 ever. thanks for letting me share
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Jerry Martin E-Mail:
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Calgary, Alberta Canada
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Thursday February 8, 2007 - 04:59pm
I miss you brother, time to stop killing myself because I couldn't save you. Love always Jerry a.k.a Crazy Joe
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Wednesday November 8, 2006 - 01:38pm
my family saw your grave stone. best wishes
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Thomas and Jena
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Wednesday November 1, 2006 - 03:59pm
Daniel John, my little baby bro. We will always miss you. We're sorry you won't get to see the joy of our life from down here, named Zachary Daniel Robert, but we now you are watching from above; so please keep him safe.You are always on my mind each and every day. We love you!
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Jerry Martin E-Mail:
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Wednesday November 1, 2006 - 02:34am
Happy Birthday DJ. Wish you were here to meet your new brother, I named him Jeremy.
Love you, Dad
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Indianapolis, Ind UNITED STATES
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Friday October 20, 2006 - 07:54am
My thoughts and prayers go out to your family, I understand your tears,Anguish and Pain. On 6/1/06 my seven year old niece lost her Dad-age29 Aunt-age22,Cousin-age5.Two Uncles ages 8 and 11,and both of her grandparents ages 46 and 55 to a home robbery gone bad.Today we make plans for a meeting on Monday to set up a foundation to assist any family who has lost a loved one to murder, as our state has nothing in place, may the support of friends, community,and caring Individuals help you to find some comfort. Bless you, Marilyn.
It sure is tough to believe that this is going on seven years now. For us it is tough to believe that it has been over a year since Jonn was taken so brutally and that none of the perpetrators got more than 56 months...imagine, 56 months for first degree murder! Of course it was plea bargained down to mere manslaughter. This website has been an inspiration to all of us! Appreciation knows no bounds neither are words adequate in expressing it! Somehow Jonn's existentialist beliefs are finally kicking in and his words that are published in the "young voices" section of www.sixnationswriters.com are finally making more sense. It is true that only the good die young as Billy Joel said in his song. Also they are the ones most fondly remembered...not to minimize the passing of any elder, Lord knows that we miss our 83 year old mum and grandmother immensely! Wishing you all the best and hoping that all of this will ease in time.
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nichola marshall E-Mail:
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belfast, northern ireland
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Friday May 26, 2006 - 05:10pm
I stumbled upon this site whilst searching the web, i would like to say how sorry i am for your loss. I to understand how the justice system can fail bereaved families. My much loved boyfriend was killed by a hit and run driver on 11/4/05 he was only 19 and to date no one has ever been charged. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to the family. Treasure your memories and be thankful for the 24 wonderful years you all spent with him. Im glad i've been able to express my thoughts as I too have loved and lost. My thoughts are with all.
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Jena & Thomas LaRocque E-Mail:
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Calgary, Alberta Canada
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Wednesday March 29, 2006 - 08:29pm
Well, its been a hard path to walk. Thank God I didn't do it on my own, thnaks to my wife and family. We have been able to walk forward. But at times its always hard, because sometimes I have realized even thou I have been walking forward, I have been looking back. My wife and I have been going to church on regular basis, we both thank God for the guidance and the love we have felt from the Lord Jesus Christ. Today we saw our first child, ITSA BOY. It was so cool, I saw the feet and hands, it was truely a miracle, the best part is I know that Daniel will be watching over our child before and after the birth. Together we stand strong as a couple, because of our love through Jesus is so strong. Jena & Thomas.
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Wednesday March 29, 2006 - 06:43am
here it is 6 years since that awful day i received a call to let me know my brother was murdered. Alot has happened since then. My other brother who I grew up with was killed 6 mths ago and I know understand clearer the pain and anguish the family has gone thru. My prayers are with your family during this difficult day. Thomas and Jerry you were not only his brothers but his best friends. Jerry and Melodey(mom) I am thinking about you today as it will be another hard day to go thru Love Linda
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Saturday March 25, 2006 - 12:01pm
That day is slowly coming again. Those memories are still so clear. That day started out so wonderful. I can't believe that was the last hug I got from you. I miss you everyday!
A Pebble A pebble in the puddle that is our mind All the effects of the ripples cannot be measured Anything changed by them cannot be weighed Although there is sufficient evidence Altogether the influence is absolutely amazing As far as I can tell you were that pebble And all the different ways you changed things Cannot be measured or weighed in average ways Advice you gave and the attitude you showed Positively made all the difference in our minds We loved you more than words can ever begin to express And we know that Our Great Creator loves you more Angels like you have greater expectations from The Father He has a purpose in the heavens that is a job that you need to fill So He has called you home to be with Him
When tomorrow starts without me And I'm not there to see If the sun should rise and find your eyes All filled with tears for me I wish so much that you wouldn't cry The way you did today While thinking of the many things We didn't get to say I know how much you loved me As much as I love you And each time you think of me I know you'll miss me too But when tomorrow starts without me Please try to understand That an angel came and called my name And took me by the hand And said my place was ready in heaven far above And that I would have to leave behind All those I dearly love As I walked through heaven's gates I felt so much at home When God looked down and smiled at me From his great golden throne He said "This is eternity and all I've promised you" Today my life on earth is past But here it starts a-new I promise no tomorrow But today will always last And since each day is the same There's no longing for the past So will you take my hand and share my life with me? When tomorrow starts without me Don't think we're far apart For everytime you think of me I'm right here, in your heart -unknown-
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RÉJANE E-Mail:
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Tuscarora Township, Ontario Canada
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Friday December 9, 2005 - 06:04pm
Think of DJ saying these words (as I think of Jonn saying them to our family): I give you this one thought to keep I am with you still I do not sleep I am a thousand winds that blow I am the diamond glints in snow I am the sunlight on ripened grain I am the gentle autumn rain When you awaken in the morning's hush I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight I am the soft stars that shine at night Do not think of me as gone--I am with you still in each new dawn My prayers and thoughts are with you and my wish is this: May your loved one DJ live in your heart always! I offer you my deepest condolences. This is a marvelous thing you are doing. I hope we can do something to commemorate my 22 year old son Jonn's life in the same manner. In 19 more days he would have been celebrating his 23rd birthday.
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Wednesday November 2, 2005 - 10:11pm
Happy Birthday my love bug. (Nov 1)I know you are always around me because I feel you. Thank you for being a part of my life and understanding the truth.Keep me strong.
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Melodey Rennie E-Mail:
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Tuesday November 1, 2005 - 09:47am
Happy Birthday, my baby boy! It doesn't seem real that you are not around with your bear hugs and kisses. We miss you and take the time today to tell you how much you are loved and remembered. God is on His throne and you are there with the angels praising Him. Wait by the door, we'll join you soon. Love MOM
